Here's a great story. A friend who also had a baby after 40 yrs had to go to an all adult event - her choir practice. This was not a place for babies or children, but after she exhausted all means to obtain a babysitter, she chose to bring her baby along to choir practice. She is a major player, the organist, but that really doesn't matter in this story. As soon as she got in the door, the choir members took her baby and cuddled with her. It was absolutely no problem to bring her baby to her practice!! Everyone shared the love and supported her and her baby. They understood that they've all been there at sometime in their life and enjoy supporting her.

On the other hand... Another mom brought her baby, 18 mos, to a running event since she also had no coverage and wanted to enjoy this event. He loves runs in a stroller, even in the cold. This day, he was crying and he normally has no problems, a very happy baby. So, the mom just knew he would be over with his crying very soon. It lasted and lasted.... Finally, near the end of the event he stopped. During this whole time, unlike the story above, few paid attention to him.

Moral of the stories: Let's surround ourselves with supportive friends and family. Life is so much better with positive people in our lives! Thank you friends!!